Do people change?
I don't think so. But is it our mind the one who does the 'changing work' for them? Let me clarify it.
Is it that we are so concerned to make people change that we end up fooling ourselves, trying to make us think that those changes actually did happen?
That's my way of seeing it. Definitely it does.
In a world that we all are tailors, everything is always the same in a different costume.